The internet is a wonderful place, but it has it's dark side. There
are stalkers, pornographers, thieves and all manner of evil people lurking
everywhere, just like in real life. People who want to steal your money,
corrupt your morals, bend your ethics or worse, people who want to
target your children.
Your kids are not safe on the internet. Not at all. Don't even think
they are safe for a moment. There are dangers lurking everywhere, and if
you let your kids run wild they will get hurt.
What can you do? Equip your computer with one of the special filters
so that your children cannot venture into inappropriate areas. There are
several available including Cyber Patrol and Net Nanny.
If your browser includes any built-in filters then turn them on by all
means! If you use AOL, be sure to go through all of the parental controls
carefully and turn off everything that might cause trouble. Also check
the
major search engines - many of them have the ability to turn on a "child
safe" mode. If so, turn these on also.
Most importantly, talk to your children. Explain to them what's happening
and what to avoid. Let them know the dangers. Get them to tell you when
undesirable things (such as pornographic spam emails) appear.
And watch them. Monitor their activities directly (by being with them
and helping them surf the web) and indirectly (by checking their cookie
files, browser caches and history lists).
You might consider placing the computer in a common room such as the
family room, or at least in a place that is visible from where you normally
are at. This way you can watch over your children as they work and play
on the computers.
Make sure you tell your children some simple rules, always explaining
the reasons behind everything.
Especially stress that they are not to give out any information about
themselves to anyone on-line. This includes their name, age, phone number
or anything else. Stress this over and over.
Monitor the time spent on the internet. Beware of excessive time spent
on the internet by any children.
Also monitor what you children are looking at when you are not around.
You can do this by checking the browser cache, examining the history folder,
looking in the recycle bin and so forth.
If you are going to allow your kids to get on the internet, then this
is the only responsible thing to do. |